Thank Fucking Christ

aspec-positivity:

Trauma

If your asexual identity formed because of past trauma, you are still valid. You don’t have to defend yourself, you don’t have to mention it to people who ask why you’re asexual, you don’t need to think “im not really ace”. No matter your reason for your asexuality, it is wonderful and valid. And if, in the future, you decide you aren’t asexual after all, that’s cool too. You weren’t “lying”, you aren’t a “traitor”. People change all the time, it’s a long journey to discover yourself.

I like my men how I like my coffee.. pale, bruised, scarred, with eye bags, and at least one major trauma

ah this mortal coil

meanplastic:

so apparently sleeping doesn’t make your problems go away. I woke up and everything still sucked. shocked and upset

griffinmcelroyspisskink:

i wonder how many “hey guys are super hot no homo tho hahaha” type guys would identify as bisexual if male bisexuality was talked about more often and not like… ignored and forgotten about

dsudis:

lemonsharks:

what my parents told me: you can do anything if you set your mind to it

what I wish my parents had told me: sometimes you will fail, and it will be scary and it will suck, but you will probably not die

I would also have appreciated: the fact that you can do something if you try very, very hard, does not actually obligate you to spend your life putting forth maximum effort to achieve it. It is okay to not be 1000% driven by life-consuming ambition and instead be satisfied with something less difficult.